In 2012, my mother was diagnosed with a very extreme, terminal form of leukemia. I stood next to her throughout her treatment and watched her suffer and fight cancer with all her strength. Like with my father, this was a very difficult time, but it turned out to be a major turning point in my life. My mother’s illness made me rethink my priorities and what I was doing with my life.
I was once again hit by how fragile life is, and how everything can change in an instant. This led me to ask myself the following question:
If today was the last day of my life, how would I measure my life?
Would I measure it by the grades I got in college? By my professional success? By how much money I had? After many months of reflecting upon these questions, I came to the conclusion that a good way to measure my life would be to see how I was using my skills, energy and gifts to help other people. And when I started asking myself what was I doing to help other people, I couldn’t answer the question.
This realization made me seriously rethink what I was doing, and after 10 years on Wall Street, I decided to shift gears and make a radical change. In 2013 I quit my job in New York to focus all my energies on social change and making an impact in the world.
It wasn’t easy.
Now, everyone looks at me and says congratulations, but I won’t lie, at the time it was pretty tough. Most of the people, especially those close to me, were wondering if I was really going to do this, and why I was doing it.